what will you think???

When your friend show you a black face, what will you think?
Will you think that he/she is rude?
But, besides you are thinking that he/she is rude, will you think about the reason why he/she will show his/her black face?

When your friend do not talk with you, what will you think?
Will you think that he/she very "hao lian"?
But, besides you are thinking that he/she is "hao lian", will you think about the reason why he/she do not want to talk with you?

When your friend is get angry with you, what will you think?
Will you think that he/she is petty?
but, besides you are thinking that he/she is petty, have you ever think why he/she is get angry on you?

When your friend is started keep at a distance with you, what will you think?
Will you think that your friend do not want to be a friend with you anymore?
But, besides you are thinking that your friend do not want to be your friend, will you think that what is the reason that he/she is keep at a distance with you?

Everything that happen must got the reasons.. Dont ever think that there are others problem before understand the situation.. Use your heart to treat your friend.. Listen to them and try to understand them.. Dont just make conclusion by your own..
Lastly, the most important thing is dont HURT your friend!!

** Dear all my friends:
I am sincere to become your friend.
But i found that i need you all and yet you all dont.
Maybe i am not good enough.
I am sorry if i have hurt you all.
Really sorry...